You take the biggest fucking absences and then just automatically show up.

(felt this needed an answer)

Old unhealthy habit that spans years back.

Can’t say I’ve gotten better at not going dark, I do have my reasons and feel I’ve at least gotten better at bouncing back from taking any absences and keeping myself from complete radio silence.

Made a post about taking my own measures to avoid things like hiatuses or ghosting the hell out. It’s working out a bit so far.